And there's even a passage in Song of Solomon 4: Which, by the way, equates to more passion and more fun in the bedroom—and that is what the bedroom should be. Join over 50, other marriages and sign up for our free monthly e-news, loaded with new articles and marriage goodness. God designed you to enjoy being sexual which is why your emotions tell you that being intimate with your boyfriend feels right. Before we go any further, let us clarify our intent.
“Is Oral Sex a Sin?”
In all likelihood, the questions tugging at the back of your mind were not even touched upon. God has commanded a husband to love and honor his wife Ephesians 5: As a Christian organization, Focus on the Family draws its beliefs about sexuality from the Bible. He says that "Everything is permissible, but not all things are beneficial " and his words to us in Galatians 5: The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband.
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However it is very difficult not to touch each other or give physical pleasure to each other. Are there certain sexual practices that causes problems in your marriage? I have refused him, and it has caused arguments. A few years ago I was talking to a mom who was having trouble with her son and his girlfriend and thier physical relationship. Among the perversions or sexual sins often listed, is oral sex or the art of pleasing your spouse using your mouth.
Learn to Communicate Communication doesn't have to be a problem for you You are commenting using your Facebook account. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Second, I have been asked to counsel over a hundred married couples about oral sex as foreplay. The contact of lips and tongue to genitals is not far different from hands or fingers on genitals.